Hello. My mother is Wendy Lyman, daughter of Romanzo and Shirley (Beardsley) Lyman. My Grandfather Romanzo Gesner Lyman Jr. died in Jan. 1994 and Shirley passed in the early 80's if I remember correctly. I was only 3 or 4 years old. You say that your Father was Shirley's cousin. What sort of information are you looking for? I could maybe put you in touch with my Mom.