I'm coming late to the discussion, but I have a family history given to me by my grandmother that has Montross and Wurden in it. Unfortunately, I can verify none of it, but I'll give what I have below, just in case it rings a bell for someone.
KarenL - Town of Clinton, Dutchess County
Samuel Montross m. Phebe Ann Velder
(he d. 11/1808 ; she d. 11/1824 - I assume both are buried in Town of Clinton somewhere)
Mary m ? Valentine
Margaret m. ? Doty
Jane m. ? Knickerbocker
Amy m ? Wurden ***** the connection I mentioned
Hannah (my connection) b. 9/29/1785, d. 9/2/1864 buried in Pleasant Plains cemetery, Town of Clinton. Married 6/2/1815 to Edward Wilbor Briggs (b 8/4/1787, d. 9/1/1832).