Just to update with some names i am interested in and looking for:
Matthew Oxborough b.1835 in Methwold, Norfolk
wife: Margaret ? born in lanarkshire
children that i know of:
Henry Matthew Oxborough b1869 Deeson East Indies
Florence Elizabeth Oxborough b1874 Inhow East Indies
The family later moved to teeside in the North East of England. The father of this family Matthew was some sort of soldier who was posted in India. These are the only children i have found so far.
I am decended from Henry Matthew Oxborough, who married Mary Elizabeth Cooper in Stockton on tees.
If anyone else is tracing this line please let me know :-)