Kathleen, why don't you email me at firstname.lastname@example.org
so we can connect directly.
I have theories about the identity of Margaret Buckhout's mother but cannot be conclusive.
I have not yet found any evidence of Johannes Buckhout (the father) marrying either a Margaret or Mary Way but have seen both many times indicated in various published family trees but never with a source identified. I remain interested if anyone has proof.
Also, feel free to look at my website: http://www.buckhoutfamily.com