Hi I have been reading your threads and am hoping that you may beable to help me. It maybe that I am able to help you. I am the great Grandaughter of an Alfred Paffett whom married a Nellie Stillwell. I too have become very stuck on this family as I cant locate Alfreds birth data. he died in Portsmouth tho in his 50s I beleive. he was my Nans father and no one in the family seems to know anything about him much.... or his deceased wife whom apparantly died aged 38 due to MS, tho I can not locate either... her death certificate.