I don't think we are not related. My Thomas Fifer /Phifer
was born in Evesham, N.J. around 1830 or 1832. I believe he was the older brother of Joseph Fifer/Phifer, my ggrandfather, also born in Evesham about 1832 or 1835.
Thomas & Joseph married and lived with their families in Medford, N.J. They both served in the Civil War for the Union side.
Thomas died in Millville, N.J. in 1880.