Sorry not to have answerd before now but I have only just seen the post .......
Amelia Emily Jane POTTER (Lee) was a sister to my great grand father Alfred Lee, Who was on the 1901 Census ,and is down as an Uncle to Amelia..
I dont some how think he was , Her mother was Jane Lee nee Carter .. and father Thomas Lee of Havant ... thats the way I see it I COULD BE WRONG its been known ,,lol
let me know please if we have a link .
Mary Lee that was ,,,