Hi saw your message thought I would find out if you found your answer. There are so many potters. I am the gggg granddaughter of a potter and am still looking for Benoni's parents.
To answer your question I found in Families of Western New York that Martha Hazard daughter of Thomas Hazard married an Ichabod and then Ichabod must have died as I find that she then married again to a Benjamin Lowery. I wonder did they divorce as I found an Ichabod born 1677 married an Eleanor no last name. It would be nice since we went through all the pain to name the mother's name. The Ichabod I found born in Mass, his father was a Nathaniel Potter born 1637 his wife was Elizabeth Stokes they married in 1664. I don't know if I helped or confused the issue.
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