Anna Maria Probasco Butler (1850) Edgerton (1865) Hegeman (1873 (probate) and 1880)?
There's a likely looking one married to a John W Hegeman in Brooklyn in 1880. I can't find her in between.
Arvilla Catherine Probasco Weare ? married Frederick Rising abt 1885 and had a son Oscar E b. abt 1885. I know this from family stories. My grandfather referred to Oscar as "a nephew of my grandmother [Julia Probasco] Bradford." In 1900 Arvilla had 2 children living so I think there was perhaps another marriage and child??? Arthur Russell Weare absolutely disappears. In 1880 there's an Arvilla Fenton who checks out, right age, father b. NJ, mother b. NY
She has a daughter age 6, birthplace of father unknown....What to make of this I don't know.
Margaret Hortense Probasco married abt 1868 David Prosser Tompkins as his second wife and had 2 children Grace and Roscoe. David d. 7 Sep 1907, is buried with his first wife Mary A. Sprague and his parents Benjamin and Susannah in Glenwood Cemetery, Geneva, Ontario NY but I don't know where Margaret Hortense is buried.
Charles's death certificate is probably available and that could determine who he was. I have some other Monroe Co. queries so maybe I'll see about it sometime.
Thank you for your help.