Thank you Kim! Yes i had seen all the Seaver graves in findagrave and wondered why Jacob wasn't next to his wife Esther! I tried searches on that site in other areas with no luck so wondered if he'd died away from home. So that's good news that he may yet still be marked somewhere. I am the 4th greatgranddaughter of Joseph Seaver (Jacob's son) and 3rd greatgranddaughter of Joseph's son Joseph Rial Seaver. Thanks for your information!