Hello,Nancy Fogle again.I have more info to add,after looking at a pension record,dated July 11,1890.Here in Kansas City,Missouri.I have found the Joseph and Elizabeth that I have been looking for.I now that Joseph was a Civil War Veteran.I have found out The Eli and Lillie were in fact children of Joseph and Elizabeth Stillwell.

1870 census Buffalo Prairie,Rock Island,Illinois
Joseph Stillwell age 37
Eliza J age 37
Edith age 17
Lilley age 15
Eli age 11
Jane B age 10/12

1860 census Eagle,Brown,Ohio
Joseph T Stillwell age ? 37
Elizah J age 27
Sarah E age 9
Edie age 7
Lilly age 5
Eli age 1

There is ?'s on Joseph's birth year 1823 or 1833.If someone knows where this Joseph T Stillwell belongs,please email me at jingleboy@att.net