I can't believe I didn't see your message before...maybe I did and if so you don't have to respond.
Your are so right about researching this family!!!
Ok, my grandfather is also an Antonio Tufano born about 1881-3 Acerra. He married Maddalena D'Addio and they came separetly 1906 & 07 first to Brooklyn and moving to Chicago.
They had 5 children: Theresa (died as an infant-possibly on ship to America) then my dad Luigi Luciano 1908 New York..and three more daughters Theresa (again), Raffella "Rose", Antoinette (Angie)and a son Charles J.
They had a cousin in Chicago, or more than one, who had opened a saloon/resturant which is now Tufano's Vernon Park Pub. It has been there almost one hundred years and DiBounos (family??) bought it.
If you are sitll doing this geno. please write me.
Thank you and best wishes,
Magdalena "Lee" Marion (Mary again but opposite your grandmothers name Tufano Ludington