I have done quite a bit of research on the Veeder family and would love to correspond if you would like some more information. Your email is about 2 years old so you may already have this information, but here we go:
Angelica was the daughter of Volkert Veeder. I have found them in the 1850 Census. They lived in Guilderland Township, Albany County, New York. She was 16 in 1850 which would make her birth year about 1833/34. Her father was 52 in 1850 according to the census which makes his birth year 1798 approx. Her mother is not included in the family at this point which probably means that she has passed away. Please feel free to respond if you would like to share information. Doug C.