Hi Larry and Barbara
I too have these Gaylords marrying Hickox, but haven't found if they are related to each other. I have assumed, but no documentation.
John's wife Elizabeth is daughter of Joseph and Mary (Carpenter) Hickox.
and Joseph's wife Mary's father was also named Joseph, but I cannot be sure they are the same Joseph.
Let me know if you find the link and I'll do the same.
I come down from
Walter Gaylord and Mary Stebbins
Joseph Gaylord and Sarah Stanley
Joseph Gaylord and Mary Hickox
Joseph Gaylord and Elizabeth Rich
Aaron Gaylord m. Katherine Cole
Lorena Gaylord and Lynde Phelps
Phebe Gaylord Phelps and Uriel Bradley
Lynde Phelps Bradley and Harriet E. Parker
Helen Phelps Bradley and Charles Sumner Cook
Raymond Wilson Cook and Florence Yale
Richard Bradley Cook and Jean Capps
Donald Phelps Cook and Diane Schweitzer
Kimberly Marie Cook - me