I have Ebenezer's parents as Stephen Cole & Persis Durkee.
I took the lazy route and copied from my FTM program:
STEPHEN7 COLE (HEZEKIAH6, SAMUEL5, SAMUEL4, JOHN3, JAMES2, JOHN1) was born September 18, 1744 in Plainfield, CT, and died August 26, 1824 in Concord, Essex, VT. He married PERSIS DURKEE November 17, 1769 in Pomfret, CT or Plainfield, daughter of ANDREW DURKEE and MARY BARTHOLOMEW. She was born October 29, 1751 in Pomfret, CT, and died August 17, 1823 in Concord, Essex, VT.
Notes for STEPHEN COLE:
Revolutioary War Soldier
Private, MA Militia
"DAR Patriots Index"
Children of STEPHEN COLE and PERSIS DURKEE are:
i POLLY COLE, b. August 19, 1778; d. September 26, 1866.
ii.EUNICE COLE, m. EBENEZER BARTLETT.
iv.HEZEKIAH COLE, m. POLLY CARPENTER.
v.LUCY COLE, m. JOHN BISHOP.
vi.ANDREW COLE, b. May 25, 1769, Pomfret, CT; d. January 08, 1776.
vii.MATHEW COLE, b. March 31, 1771, Pomfret, CT.
viii.NATHAN COLE, b. February 04, 1771, Pomfret, CT.
ix.PERSIS COLE, b. November 05, 1772, Pomfret, CT.
x.ELIZABETH COLE, b. August 28, 1774, Pomfret, CT; m. LEVERETT CLARK.
xi.STEPHEN COLE, b. September 09, 1780, Amherst, MA; d. August 1873.
xii.EBENEZER W. COLE, b. July 08, 1782, Springfield, MA; d. 1869.
xiii.PERSIS COLE, b. June 23, 1784, Springfield, MA; m. RILEY CHAPIN.
xiv.SALLY COLE, b. June 23, 1786, Springfield, MA; m. ORIN COLBURN.