I'm working on a project where I'm trying to find and trace all emigrants from Allendorf, Westphalia, Germany; and I just found your message while doing an Internet search.
I have your family on my website at: http://allendorf.kinfolks.info/other/bodde.htm#Franz
I show Franz Bodde's wife as being Adelheid Braun instead of Cramer, however. But, I did get that info from an index and not from the original record, so it might possibly be wrong. Or, maybe it was a second marriage for Adelheid.
Maybe you can fill in some of the holes in my information on your family.