I am also related to Thomas Wiley who married
Jenny Sellards. I visited their grave two years ago. It is in Lawrence Co. I think. There was a sign that appeared to be place on the main road that told you to turn to see Jenny Wiley's Grave. It wasn't far . You park at the bottom of a hill and walk up to the grave but you pass two other cemeteries on the way up.
All I ever read says Thomas was from Ireland. If I ever Pass thru that section of KY on any day but a weekend I wouldd like to do more searching .
I suppose you have the story of Jenny Wiley's escape from the indians. If not I would be happy to send it to you.
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