I'm glad I'm not the only one that has that butterfly driving them crazy :-)
Here's a solution regarding the popups. There's a program called "POW" at AnalogX, which helps tremendously. Basically, it reads the name of the browser window that pops open, and if its in your list of popups to close, it will. Is this perfect? Nope, because they just have to change the name, but I find many don't.
The program runs in the background, if loaded properly, and then when a new popup opens that you want to add to your kill list, you click on the little icon on your taskbar, click Add, and then choose the popup from the list. After clicking done it magically disappears!!
This is freeware and here's the URL:http://www.analogx.com
Unfortunately, it won't zap the butterfly, or any ads embedded on the page, but at least the pop ups get killed. Mine has slammed 548 pop windows to date!