Minnies maiden name is probably de Jonge.
She's born as Jacomina de Jonge 11.18.1860 Heinkenszand
daughter of Jan de Jonge and Jacoba Pover.
Take a look at: http://search.labs.familysearch.org/recordsearch/start.html?...
Type verdurmen in the surname box and at one of the births of the children she pops up.
Because Jacomina is a typical name from Zeeland en Desire is from Heinkenszand I searched;http://borsele.rvc.nl/burgerlijkestand/geboorte/search.asp
achternaam kind: Jonge
voornaam kind: Jacomina
There are 4 Jacomina's who are a possibility.
Jacomina de Jonge born 11.18.1860 is the only one
that has disappaered and probably moved to the US to
become one of your ancestors.
Have a good one,
Rian in the Netherlands