Found some more about your ancestors Abbin(c)k, on a site of Historical Haaksbergen, in Dutch so what I found I put here in English:
Berend Abbink from Eibergen went ''under-marrying''- I can't find how you say that in English, it was some weeks before the marriage itself, you understand?)
-so he was undermarried in Haaksbergen to Grietje Cuipers on 15 june 1679 (= Grete from the baptism of Geertruij), she was a daughter of already deceased Tonnis (= Teunis, Anthonie)
- Haaksbergen is in Province Overijssel, possible that Grietje Cuipers came from here, then to Eibergen
By the way:
the oldest baptism and marriages churchbooks from Dinxperloo are only kept from 1609-1618, then there's a big gap and then it goes from 1660/1661, so in the period between it's not possible to search in those churchbooks.
Eibergen : baptism beginning from 1621 (reformed )till I think 1811, then you got the Civil Registration.
and marriage starting from 1653,
hope this all helps you a bit further,
Berent Abbink seems son of Tonnis Abbinck.
Berend Abbink had probably gotten the farm Jaosker (Jaasker) as a legacy from his parents-in-law