O.K. Matt - run with that for now....I have some more ideas and leads, and I may be off/wrong, but see what you come up with for right now...and recheck what 'David' told you here in his posts, plus what 'Leona' shared in her 2011 posts to you.
It's NOT always necessarily you! - it's THEM back then, and the screwed up records and misinformation and outright lies (sometimes). [Some of my ancestors didn't seem sure of when they were born!] Second, I've noticed doing this research that a lot of people flip-flopped their names too - and why, I don't know. Drives me nuts.
Correct - how many of the marriages [or divorces] were even "real" [legitimate] - or they were married under false pretenses - like Loretta Theil, aka "Norma Carty" for instance?
Ex.: Bertha Cydrus remarried a Lawrence Brown on 3/23/1921 yet claims she's never been married before - bonk!
Do check out that stuff on F-a-G and maybe consider e-mailing the guy that posted those memorials - he MAY be related. It's worth a try.
I'll be curious to hear if something comes together for you.