That is not good - this system is certainly not perfect, huh? Since I am a visual person I have been trying to get a family figured out by using pictures/clip art to group them together. I can try to delete my work once I figure it out, i.e. one man had three wives and I am using different images to get the children with the correct wives, so my images are not relevant to others, that is for sure. We all learn by doing things differently and this clipart way is just one way (for me), but it seems to make other people on Ancestry not happy. I don't think I am doing anything wrong, but the system is not helping like it should, maybe.