am trolling through the slog on ancestry to see why in September 2013 the relationship to me button is NOT working. I noted with interest your last sentence. Are you kidding?!!! Ancestry really does not care about its paying members. plain and simple. otherwise they would pay attention to all these negative comments from us, the paying members. Actually I am thinking that the 'Hal' computer has taken over at Ancestry and we are unimportant to 'his' mission.