I will be more than happy to help you solve this. I can find Allen's grave.
I am leaving out of town on Monday (t'marra) I will be gone for a week.
Please email me and I will get going on this when I return. If you find someone in the meantime ... no worries. If you find someone and they are unable to find Allen...then I will pick up the pieces.
Also, I will not charge you...
Look forward to hearing from you.