In the Civil War Pension Index: General Index to Pension Files, is a record for James J. Lister.
The widow is named as: Catharine Lister
A dependent minor is named as: Benjamin M. Lister
The widow application was filed on 1865 Nov 6.
The minor application was filed on 1877 Jan 13.
At this time I haven't located a burial site for James J. Lister.