Victoria - Read your posts and saw you mentioned St. Mary's Cemetery in Dedham. I believe this is the cemetery where my ancestors are buried. It is a family plot (well sort of) with a number of people buried under the headstone erected by Elizabeth Wedding. There should be a headstone, with a military headstone also for Joseph (& Mary) LaFrancois, a headstone for Daniel Donahue and a couple of others.
As best the information that I have, if you enter through the gate closest to Washington, they are located just around the curve. There are about 4 headstones related to my Readville ancestors in that area.
Donahoe, Wedding, Butler
I am particularly interested in the Miliary Headstone for Joseph LaFrancois. It should provide the information of his unit and establish a time-period when he served.
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John C. Hannigan