It has to do with my grandmothers son who was an infant at 3 months old. We went back to the cemetery in the 80's only to find them meaning the new owners workers destroying tombstones and plots of many families graves especially peoples children and people who died in the late 1800's and early 1900'A.D. They were getting ready to destroy my family member as I arrived just in time to stop it. People grave stones were bulldozed and disposed of. I saw it with my own eyes. I know for positive in one grave one Vanya grave was bought by another family and was placed on top of a babies grave without the new owners knowledge that a strangers baby was buried in that same spot.
I am sick about it and I went to the Queens District Attorney to see if an investigation could be done and criminal charges could be brought on them.
You need to see if your families grave stone is there and that the section number, grave number, and the row number hasn't changed. My family member grave number and row number changed from the original location which was on the original feed.
I can't go into too much detail because it's too much to write. Feel free to call me.