Haaaa....Haaa...I know what you mean! My family is buried in every single Cemetery in NY/NJ-I swear! lol And I moved to AZ 11 yrs ago, so going to NY to find stuff is just out of the question-thank G_d for the internet! ;)
I wish they all were so easy to find! I have created a ton of pages on findagrave.com-but I know where most of the plots are for family members, just needed the photos of the graves for the Hebrew written on them-which is usually their actual names and lists the name of their father...HUGE help!