My great-grandmother and her newly born son are buried on the grounds of the Bolivar Lighthouse. I do not know if there is a headstone still standing there or not. I have not been able to visit the area. My grandfather called it the Gardner or Bolivar Lighthouse Cemetery.
Her name is:
Nora Ellen Ellis Gardner
born 7 Jan 1886 died 5 Dec 1918 (flu epidemic)
Baby Boy Gardner
born 5 Dec 1918 died 5 Dec 1918
My grandfather was 6 years old when his mother and baby brother died and remembers every detail of that day.
They were buried not far from the lighthouse and he and his 3 year old sister were put on the train that day to go live with his Ellis grandparents until his father remarried over a year later and came for them.
I would like to find out if there is a headstone on the grave and if it is even there anymore. If anyone can help in any way, please post here.