I have just seen the grave a few days ago with one of my friends. He told me he's asked everyone, even the graveyard workers and they don't know anything about her. When he was there earlier a friend stepped on the grave and later crushed her hand, suposedly it's said to be cursed.
what i DO knoe about her is this, she died in a hospital, her husband is burried across the road, and they were still married when they departed. that's all i know so far, but i am determined to find out more. i hope i was some kind of help, although i'll admit not much. if you find out anymore information please contact me with the subject Lilly E. Gray, thank you