"Information freeloaders" I like it and I absolutely agree! I guess I was raised differently, but I was taught never to take something and not give back something in return. Since when has selfishness become acceptable?
I also think I should at least be able to see the potential match portion of their tree or they shouldn't be able to see mine.
Plus I just know that hiding in those darn private trees are a few of the lines I am trying so hard to find.