I think this is the obit info of Anna Marie Carey's ex-husband (They were divorced.)
BACOWSKY, Stanley L; 460; b. 30 DEC 1947 Brooklyn NY > d. 8 JAN 1994 ; 1995-JAN-10
I think you can get a free copy of his obit from this site:http://www.orgenweb.org/coos/cemetery.htm
His obit could provide more clues as to relatives, even though they were divorced.