I can relate to that. I have some distant cousins and some who think they are distant cousins was mean and not educated by placing my family that directly links to my family members who are still living. When websites have city directories link with the names it also shows my family members current addresses which endangers them to and especially to identity theft. Genealogy is a fun and enjoyable way of connecting history with one's own family, but some will place everything on the internet without thinking of the dangers. I wish these websites would help educate researchers better.