I have a copy of a treasurer's report for the Soldiers' Children's Home in Trenton, NJ. It is dated 1876. Four Barlow children are listed as residents: Irene, William, Charles and John. Some limited history of the institution was sent to me along with a picture of orphans in front of the orphanage. Please contact me by email. I would be happy to forward you a copy of all that I have. I sent an email to Betty and hope her address is current.