While I think I know which of the many sons was her father, I have no proof. Of course the census that she may have been listed with her parents would have been 1890. I searched the remaining section without luck. The following years she is listed with the grandmother and younger uncle and aunt. A five year search thru NJ state archives turned up no birth records- either she wasn't born there or it wasn't registered. I haven't had any luck though any of the online databases with the little concrete info that I have.