It's ok, i usually put UK in brackets next to my name. Most appreciated that you will still search.
Yes it is the same family, however i do have the info on Jacob Bensley, his wife Martha Johnston Bensley was my 3x Great Aunt. It's as though she had vanished along with ehr daughter Mary Ann Decker. Very strange, but thank you so much for posting the link, it could have been something i missed.