This thread may help quite a lot, have sent a reply to message you sent me, and agree all kept so quite,or not soquite as the case may be - oh gentry and hush hush, but it did go on such a lot and a blind eye was turned, but there was only Anne and that says a lot, so he must have thought a lot of her -let us see where the records take us.
Got a lot of work to do now, it takes ages putting all the people into the family tree, and the new ones on dads side I was not expecting - Lilian dads younger sister is hoping I can complete and send her the details.
Good site Ancestry so much info. cannot afford to be a full member,but at least it gives you this access which is brill.
Enjoy you weekend.
Love mum x