im having the same type problem. I was once married to paul, but we divorced no kids. i dated a guy here at fort cambpell ky got pregnant we broke up and i had the baby. But when i put the baby in it files her father as paul. or if i put the father into it it says i was married to him as spouse 2. its annoying and i cant get anyone from family tree help line to help me out with this. I dont want to just settle with it being wrong.